6 reasons not to give a dog as a Christmas present
Many children long for a furry friend. That's why some wish lists feature the scribbled words, "I want a dog!" A puppy for Christmas? While it sounds cute, it's not a good idea! And it's not a good gift for an adult either. Here are six reasons why dogs aren't suitable Christmas presents.
Six reasons why a dog is not a good Christmas present
1. Animal shelters do not rehome dogs as Christmas gifts
Experience is the best teacher: Many animal shelters stop rehoming animals from mid-December onwards. Unfortunately, many people gave their pets away during the second half of December. In January, shelter staff frequently saw these dogs and cats back at the shelter. Too much work, too noisy, too expensive – the reasons given suggest that many people didn't think things through before giving them away.
2. Not a good idea: a dog as a Christmas surprise
No one presents a dog wrapped in gift paper. But the temptation is strong to unveil the little ball of fur under the Christmas tree. However, the new family member shouldn't be a flashy surprise! All family members should be prepared for the arrival of a dog. This includes teaching children clear rules for interacting with the furry friend, even before the dog moves in. The first meeting should take place in a calm environment and without any dramatic effects.
3. It's better to choose the dog yourself.
It's not just children who want pets – many adults are happier with a dog by their side. Do you know someone who would love a new dog? For example, Aunt Elfriede: her dachshund Waldi passed away three weeks ago at a ripe old age. A new four-legged friend would surely cheer her up! So, off to the breeder or the classifieds? Not a good idea! Even "big dog lovers" should decide for themselves whether they want to take on the enormous responsibility of an animal companion. Perhaps Aunt Elfriede would rather travel or is planning to get two cats. Even if you know that another four-legged friend is coming into the picture, Elfriede, like any dog lover, should choose for herself which canine personality will enrich her life in the future.
4. Responsibility cannot be given away.
If you give a pet as a gift, you remain responsible for its Well-being. Who will walk the dog in all kinds of weather? Who will take on the time-consuming training? What happens if the dog gets sick? These and many other questions need to be answered and are incompatible with giving a dog as a gift.
For example, it's not a good idea for parents to buy a dog solely for their child's sake. Adults are fully responsible for the animal. Therefore, they should enjoy training it themselves. And employment. Before deciding to get a dog, clarify the following questions:
- Do all family members agree to the move-in?
- How do we plan a holiday with a dog??
- Do we have several hours each day to spend with the dog?
- Is there enough money to cover ongoing costs as well as a buffer for veterinary bills?
- Can we remove the new four-legged friend's hair and dirt without causing a fuss?
- Are there any pet allergies in the family?
- Do we have the patience for the challenging task of raising children?
You should clarify all these questions before a dog can move in.
5. A dog is a member of the family.
Giving a dog as a gift, like an inanimate object, conveys values that are incompatible with animal love. Ideally, a four-legged friend is a cherished new family member, not an object passed from one person to another. If your child wants a dog for Christmas, explain beforehand why animals are not suitable gifts.
6. Too much hustle and bustle at Christmas
Family celebrations and visits from relatives. A Christmas tree adorned with glittering baubles and tinsel. Festive meals and boisterous toddlers. This is what Christmas looks like in many families. Because the holidays are usually anything but peaceful, consider this: What would a puppy or an adult dog expect at your home for Christmas? Bringing a new pet into your home should be a calm and peaceful experience. Therefore, the Christmas holidays are not a good time to introduce a dog to its new environment.
Dogs as Christmas gifts – are there any exceptions?
Many people take time off between Christmas and New Year's and would like to get their new dog then. There's nothing wrong with that. For example, puppies are just the right age to move in around Christmas. Or rescue dogs can settle in well before coming to the office with you in the new year.
However, you should avoid hosting large parties and stay home over the holidays. December 27th is often a better choice than the 24th.
The same applies here: a dog should never be a spontaneous gift! Also, be especially careful with puppies to make sure they don't eat Christmas decorations or nativity figures.
Christmas gifts: What are some great animal-themed alternatives?
Books or vouchers
Does your child desperately want a dog, and can you imagine welcoming a four-legged friend into your family? Have you already researched the expected costs, time commitment, and needs of a dog, and do you know you can provide a good home for it?
Great! Then, for Christmas, why not give your child a child-friendly book about interacting with dogs? This way, you'll be giving them something to look forward to, and your child can prepare for the exciting time ahead with a dog.
Is the gift for an adult who definitely wants their own dog? No problem! Make it happen with an interesting book on the subject or a voucher for basic equipment for their new pet—a joy for their companions at Christmas.
Not a gift for animals
If it's unclear whether a dog is allowed or even possible, choose a different gift. A plush dog is only a good idea for very young children.
Other solutions are possible: If you have an animal shelter in your area, you could inquire about a children's or youth group. Your child could then regularly volunteer there to help dogs and other animals in need.